EVERY WOMAN'S ECHO - An insight on the brutality against women/girls

This is the problem that which still left behind as the problem unsolved from decades . The severity of the problem is rapidly increasing despite of countries and nations. The problem am talking here is the violence against women and the different kind of attacks on them for various reasons which many go without any explanation.

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Brutality is there in our society since the homo sapiens existed, it is different for different situations. Brutality towards animal life, human life and nature. We know all the facts about this, there are speakers who give speeches on this and writers who write, activists who protest in our society. Are we feeling any responsibility towards these actions? We may or may not feel, it doesn't make much difference when the action is done still there is no reaction. I mean when the effort go waste without any fruit then it's just considered as a try. And i think these tries and attempts are not going to work anyway, a perfect reversal is needed now to make our society to feel responsible, flying beyond all the obstacles like illiteracy and poverty. Lack of awareness is also a major threat for a person to build a mentality.
Many people are unaware of many blindsides. The 'open crimes' are however increasing, bribing is one. If we discuss about the anti-social activities am sure there will be pages and pages of data flows like a busy rush river.

It is known that words go free in air if they are not done in action. I am writing about the attacks and brutality on women for the second time and i know that i can't change the billion people mind about what they are thinking and i can't bring the check to the attacks on my own. What all i can do is to create a question among all of us and if at least one is touched by it,then our effort will transform activism to cure the diseased beast minds.

The common brutal activities on girls are:

ⓐ Acid attacks (usage of concentrated acids like con.sulphuric acid or nitric acid to disfigure the face of a girl and cause third degree burns).

ⓑ Rapes, harassments.

Not only these but there exists many problems in the society by which a girl cannot tolerate them and is forcibly stepped back from her dreams. Who are responsible for this mistake? Are the elders who created a barrier between a woman and the society?
Or we who are still believing in the damn rules and superstitions related to freedom of girls in the society? Well, what does these rules doing for girls? Are they just paperworks or helping any woman in need?

It must be because those who created the rules are not here to re-write or modify them according to the revolution occurred due to the generation change . And some rules must and should have to be changed because time and days are changed. Let me take an example here...

Back in those days .. Let us rewind and see, a girl must be the one who have to serve her husband throughout her life and main thing is there was no age-restrictions for bride grooms. An old fellow of 60+ may marry a girl of 20+ or below too. And we can visualise that girl's situation. Child marriages however maximum are prevented now with the fights of some kind hearted people.
Can we at least stay in those days? Girls..can you? NO ! we freak out . Because the rule is a rule and rule for all. Even a girl has a right and freedom to live in the present world everything is changed completely.

Girl stepped out

Yes, she does. And she is now well educated and employed and earning equal (even more than) to a man. And now a days can you number those families who are depending on a girl's income? No we can't because there are many. She is running a family now and bearing the pressure on her own without any assistance.

We have to realise here that the problems are changing too with the growth in the knowledge and the development. There were no rape cases much in the past when compared to present. And gropes in the public places and manhandling are increased on a huge scale in the current days. So,this means there is a need to change according to the problems. We can't apply an old method to takedown the modern one.
So ,if we are in the world of equality a man and a woman must have equal rights and now they have too (Not in some areas) . Still these rights are just a paperwork and they made no effect on the painful lives.

By nationality am an Indian and i have witnessed many cases which are hurtful to women . The victims were my friends, my neighbours so do my relatives.

The rank of India is topping in rapes and Delhi is called as a rape capital now. If a girl set out during night all alone or even accompanied by others, her situation is erratic.

In different countries there are different problem for the girls a man can survive at any corner of the world but a girl don't.This doesn't means she is weak, she needs a minimum respect and honour and care from her surroundings and neighbourhoods. It is worst that if her own people turn on her, a girl is special being, a blessing.

Her love is a necessity, her hate may become a spoiler, her anger is dangerous. She is a mother, a sister, a girlfriend, a lover, a wife. Without her there is no beauty. She is a God given mate. But she has a threat in the world, in the society from us, not by any outlanders.

And in the countries like Afghanistan and other Arab countries they follow the rules on girls are very strict. They won't let them to live free.
If we talk different situations under different circumstances the girls are treated as the 'figures' who are just there in time of need. This falls under the category of human trafficking and prostitution.

Let's hope for a change, as nothing is permanent except change. Not just sit and hope, but play a role in bringing a shade on this evil and pluck it off with roots.