It is always a beauty of a woman that attracts the man, whether it is due to her physical looks or the looks from deep inside, it is always her beauty that actually controls the behavior of a man. Generally, I always start a blog post on my new site with an intention to gain more followers and to have many more page views, but this time, I would like to start with something, that which is actually going to make sense. And as a boy, I am going to discuss with my co genders about the beauty, that actually drives us wild.
The Looks of a girl doesn’t matter at all
If we see a girl passing by, there are two situations that a boy can comment or just appreciate her beauty. Those two situations are when he is alone, then he won’t dare to comment on the girl in the very first attempt, if that girl is a complete stranger, a maximum number of boys won’t encounter her directly, if they know a girl, then they will approach her and comment.
And the second situation is that, when the boy is with his mates, then the gang will throw a comment on a girl, the power of numbers game favours the boys, someone in the gang will take that dare movement to go forward and comment a girl. That is actually the strength of the unit, but not as a single one.
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And the looks of the girl doesn’t matter at all here, because there is a beauty in God’s creation, we cannot deny someone just by saying that they are not beautiful, there are many situations where most of the girls who are alone all the time will try to grab attention of the boys by doing something different or by doing something else, they mould themselves into a body language which doesn’t suit them, they are forcibly letting their own bodies to undergo alienation. This is not required at all. As I said, everyone is a creation of God and they possess their own specialized talent and beauty. The looks of a girl or a boy don’t matter at all to be called a beautiful.
There is no place for comparison
I observed in my life that many people will compare themselves with others while depicting their own talents. For example, if a girl is beautiful and pretty good to be an actress, she won’t live up her life, she rather compares herself to a famous celebrity who is doing much better by getting more opportunities and projects.
This happens with us all, we, being humans, have one bad habit which we try to get rid of, but can’t is the habit of comparison. We tend to compare ourselves and our performances to that of others and get satisfied ourselves if the other person is not doing well as we do.
Coming to the beauty of a girl, it need not be compared with anyone or anything, there are different kinds of beauty that exist in a girl, it only depends on the way the ex gender is looking at. I don’t want to make this post as explicit, I know what most of the guys stare in a girl when they meet her for the first time, well, this is how about the truth of nature. We have to agree with that.
Do not judge her due to her imperfections
Judging others is always considered as a bad thing, it is a filthy thing to judge others, the reason behind this is we are not perfect too. We need to point our own limitations then go for the imperfections in the others, we all need to learn from our own mistakes, rather than concentrating on how to make corrections in others lives. Judging a girl because of her appearance is not recommended and it is not a man thing to do. There are many consequences you have to face in the future if we judge a girl about her looks. Who knows, she might turn into an angel in the next year and may answer you roughly.
The girls are not any pieces in a showcase, they are humans like us too, we need to respect their flaws and accept their beauty as it is. I am not asking you to marry a girl for whom you don’t have a feeling for, I am only asking you to see the things in a positive way. Every girl is an angel to her father first, then to her husband.
Do not force or misbehave with her
Dude, I am trying to be a more straightforward here, not every girl you see is ready to be your bedmate, and your those sleepless nights dreams are going to be just wasted minutes, because girls do have their own feelings and not all girls are same, they are unique and most of the shy girls won’t even appear in the social media till today.
Let me admit a point here, if you see a girl who is much and much attractive and if and only if she is single, then approach her directly and then compliment her. Don’t rust in doing so, if you are not pre-planned, then things are going to turn against you and you might lose a good future friend in your life.
Never force any girl in anything, they are not the toys to bend like you wish to do, you may ask me why I am writing a post on the topic which is not in my list because I am not in a mood right now to write a poem.
Conclusion
Before I conclude, let me share my views on the beauty of a girl, generally, girls are the creation of God to be with the man and take and give pleasure physically and mentally. A girl is strong in her mind and weak in physic when compared with the man, but she possesses the power within her to control this whole world with a blink of her eye. When I met my girl for the first time, I just forgot what I was and then slowly I began to move closer to her, she made my day every time she comes to me, her scent makes me fulfil all my dreams. Likewise, any girl could be your soulmate, try not to impress her with your style or wealth, try to impress her with your heart, then she cannot leave you in your entire life.
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