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We all have to go through hard times, when we are in the middle of the problems, left alone and betrayed. There is where our life hits the rock bottom, it feels like a dead end and words won't workout here, also not any comfort.
We can call this in a state of depression and hardship. And no strength will help us to fight this torments.
Comforting words sounds like curses, people around us appears like enemies and seems like they emerged as new foes against us.
We are going to fight with our feelings and emotions. May be we are out of control and prevention is miles away from us. So, how we are looking forward to handle?
There comes none to rescue us, we are our own light. We all had experienced those hard rock situations in our lives, some of us are through them and some are still struggling.
However, our beloved ones are there to help us out of these tough times, but we have to learn to cultivate self-motivation whenever necessary, as a tool.
Here am going to wing our lives with the challenging behaviour, we have to question the problem besides questioning our capabilities.
In this post am going to bring ten questions before you. We need to practice to self-act and self-question when we are surrounded by huge problems.
These questions will help us to realize our inner strength and fills back all the courage and there by increasing the confidence.
Let's see what are they!
- Is this failure occurred to ‘only' me in the world?
- If others, who had faced the same failure like I do. Are they capitalized and get out of the failure?
- If someone is out, can I be too? Can I make a big comeback after tasting this failure?
- Am I ready to accept myself and not to blame others for the failure? Am I ready to realize my mistakes?
- Did I made a correct strategy? If not, can I make one now?
- Can I make sure not to repeat the same mistakes from past?
- Am I ready again to invest enough energy, time and consideration for the goal?
- Am I ready to ‘let go' those who distracted me from winning?
- Can I implement any planning to reach the goal?
- Am I ready to learn lessons from the failures and not to retreat from such situations?
Analysis of the above questions :
Now let's analyze the questions one by one.
The answer to the first question will be a big YES. Because, many are there before we are. Irrespective of the fields we are in, feeling of success and failure is the same. For an ordinary shopkeeper to a business tycoon, success means profit. Likewise, we all have our own success and failures.
When we are facing a failure after another and other. Then don't regret in doing another try. Before you, there are names in the list, who had gone through the similar situation like you.
Don't copy their way of approach, but do copy their spirit.
Answer to the second question is also YES, they may or may not capitalized, it's your time to get up and leave some footprints in the history.
Making a comeback is never like a debut, it's like a ball with speed after hitting the wall. It may gradually lower the speed, but it does make an impact.
For the fourth question, we have to say YES if we need a success. Blaming and complaining will not guide us. Accepting our own failures will boost us.
Checking our strategic planning is important to know the leaks in our bucket of investment. And if we re-read it, there will be some solutions lying in.
For the sixth question, a NO means lack of confidence, if YES means overconfidence. As we are humans, sometimes we do the same mistake twice or many more times. We can't assure that we can't repeat it, but still we've to try not to.
For the seventh, we have to be ready to invest additional energy, that means more than before. Simple reason is, we've failed last time with less, let's make it more this time.
Eighth is right, some persons or things. Even emotions and feelings may distracted us in the past. Some addictions and procrastinating attitude. Let's eliminate them to feel the change.
New plans and new rules must be implemented to see a better result than before, we have to try this for sure.
Learning from the past is really a good thing. It's free, ready to teach us anytime.
Next time, when you or anyone you know are in a problem. Try this self questioning. This may help you out and bring you closer to the solution.
Don't pressure your mind much by questioning it, take a break and question with all the positivity. All the best!
Share your thoughts and ideas in the comments, do you have any question to include or a tip to face the failure? Go ahead and share. Thank you :)
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